If She Is Interested (Dating)

1.Note physical contact. Everyone has a personal “bubble” of about 18 inches. If she gets into your personal space, or even finds excuses to touch you, you can bet she’s interested. Be ready for any “tests” she might make for herself—stepping into your personal space to let someone walk past, touching your arm as a condolence when you’re sad, or putting her hand on your knee to emphasize that she finds you funny are all quick breakdowns of the physical barriers to see how you react.

If you’re interested in her, respond by doing a few little “tests” of your own. She’ll know you’re interested, and it’ll open up the doors for longer, more prolonged touching.

 

2.Be aware of eye contact. A woman will let you know she thinks you’re the most interesting person in the room by staring into your eyes. If you’re just getting to know each other, she will only hold it a couple seconds longer than normal. However, if you know each other well, she may feel comfortable enough to stare deep into your eyes for long periods of time.

It takes two. She can’t make prolonged eye contact with you if you shift your gaze. If you’re uncomfortable by her advances, feel free to look away quickly. However, if you’re interested in her, let the eye contact last for a couple seconds before you let yourself (or her!) look away.

 

3.Gauge her giggle factor. Take notice of how often she smiles or laughs around you comparatively to other people. Often times, a woman who’s interested in you will find it hard to stop laughing in your presence. This may be during a conversation with you, during which she’ll make lots of eye contact, smile, and giggle or laugh at even the most pitiful jokes, or it may be simply when she’s in the same room with you. Look also for overly loud, boisterous behavior when she’s engaged in a different conversation in the same room; it’s a sure sign she wants you to notice her.

 

4.Be mindful of “cute” gestures. There are a few gestures that women will make to encourage your desire to take her into your arms. The most important of these is the shoulder shrug. Open, upturned palms are also important signs that she’s interested.

 

5.Check out her heartbeat. If you are comfortable enough with each other to cuddle, put your head on her chest. If her heart is racing, she’s really interested. If you’re not comfortable enough to get close to her heart, check out her wrist pulse. Lightly grab her hand and rest a finger on her wrist. This is difficult to master, but if you can pin down a racing heart, you have a pretty good sign that she’s very into you.

 

You can also gauge her heartbeat by observing her breathing patterns. This is just as difficult, if not more so, than feeling for a pulse, but doesn’t require prolonged touch. When you’re sitting next to each other during a movie, lightly brush up against her. If she’s breathing very quickly, it’s probable that she’s interested. If she’s holding her breath, she might be trying to hide the fact that she’s breathing hard.

 

6.Look for mirrored movements. Often, a woman who is interested will subconsciously mirror your movements. This shows that the two of you are on the same wavelength and can thus increase intimacy in the relationship. That’s why dancing is considered intimate or sexy—it forces you to mirror each other’s movements!.. *wink*

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