How to Read Women’s Body Language for Flirting

1.Pay attention to her gaze. A woman who is interested will not only check you out, but she’ll let you catch her doing it! Repeated direct eye contact from across the room is a sure sign she wants you to come say hi, especially if it’s accompanied by a smile.

 

Watch her face. Women’s faces tend to be more animated when they’re interested in you. Pay attention to her eyebrows, lips, and eyes to see how she reacts to the things you have to say. Here a few things to keep your eyes peeled for:

 

Raised eyebrows. This can be used in a number of situations, but most of the time, it’s a good thing. When paired with a smile and a nod, raised eyebrows means that she agrees with what you’re saying—even if it’s just because you’re the one who’s saying it. Women will also raise their eyebrows after making eye contact to show that they like what they see.

 

Fidgety lips. If she chews on her lips when she’s thinking or listening, she’s drawing attention to her lips, and thus probably interested. Likewise, look for her to be licking her lips. Not only is this a subconscious way to draw attention to her lips, but women’s mouths get drier when they’re excited and/or aroused.

 

2.Dilated pupils. Both males and females’ pupils dilate when they are interested in the person they’re talking to. This will be especially apparent if you’re in a light setting, as darker settings will naturally produce more dilated pupils.

 

Overactive eyelids. If she’s batting her eyelashes, she’s definitely flirting. While this move is very cliché, the stereotype comes from somewhere. If a woman is interested in you, she’ll blink slightly faster than she would normally.

 

Flared nostrils. When women are interested or aroused, their nostrils flare. It’s an involuntary response to excitement, so, like dilated pupils, you can be pretty sure she’s genuinely interested if her nostrils are flared.

 

3.Take note of where she is in relation to you. Interested women will lean in close. If you’re sitting at a table, she may rest her head on one or both of her hands to get closer to you.

 

Beware of crossed arms. If she’s sitting back in her chair with her arms crossed, chances are she’s bored or uninterested. Try regaining her interest by sparking conversation about her and her life. If nothing works, you may need to find another girl.

 

4.Pay attention to the way she touches her hair. Gentle movements, such as mindlessly twirling a strand around her finger or running her fingers through it slowly are signs that she’s very interested. Quick, jerky movements indicate that she’s embarrassed or impatient, especially when paired with wandering eyes.

 

Quick, jerky movements don’t mean that the situation is hopeless. If you’re coming on super strong, back off a little bit. Be sure that you’re not dominating the conversation or complimenting her too much.

 

5.Be mindful of her fingers. Women who are interested will use their fingers to caress erogenous zones on their body, fiddle with jewelry, or play with their glass.

 

Caressing erogenous zones. When a woman often caresses her lips, neck, or collarbones, she’s sending you a signal that she wants you. This is commonly a subconscious way of drawing your attention to these areas, reminding you that she’s sexy.

 

6.Fiddling with jewelry. When a woman is round someone that she’s interested in, her heart beats faster. This makes her feel nervous excitement. As a sort of outlet for that tension, she’ll twist her rings, play with her earring, or tug at her necklace. She may also bounce her foot or leg to get rid of the extra energy.

 

Playing with objects. When a woman strokes the stem of a wine glass or runs her fingers along the rim of her water cup, she’s trying to get your attention. If the movements are slow and controlled, she’s likely interested. If, however, she’s tapping the glass and pursing her lips, she probably can’t wait to get out of there.

 

7.Look at her legs. Often times, an interested woman will cross her legs. This is an especially good sign if her top leg is pointed towards you. She may also stroke her lower thigh or smooth her pants as or before she does this to further draw attention to her legs.

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