Massage can be a HUGE part of foreplay and can be the most crucial part to pleasing your girl in the bedroom.
You don’t have to massage every time, but it’s something that you’ll want to try out a few times with the same girl, just to mix things up a bit.
By getting her fully relaxed she will be able to have multiple orgasms in a much shorter amount of time. You see with most guys, it’s just about the sex… you stick it in, wiggle it about and climax in a few minutes… where’s the fun in that?
HERE ARE THE 3 SENSUAL MASSAGE TECHNIQUES YOU SHOULD BE USING BEFORE SEX
1. SET THE MOOD (AMBIENCE)
Never attempt to massage a girl without setting the right mood first. It will take her much longer to feel completely relaxed if the environment isn’t perfect.
Dim the lights – If you have a dimmer switch that’s great. If not, then buy a couple of table lamps and switch those on instead.
Grab a towel – Lay a towel on the bed, so you don’t get any oil on the sheets (or her lady juices).
Check the room temperature – Make sure it’s not too hot and not too cold, so that she is comfortable when naked.
Make the room smell nice – Use a few scented candles before she arrives so the room smells really nice.
Play some relaxing music – Keep the music low, but loud enough so it’s relaxing.
2. GET SOME QUALITY OILS
Oils are the most crucial part of any full body sensual massage, so choose from the ones below. You need to choose an oil that not only smells nice, but stays lubricated for a long time… and is 100% natural so you don’t irritate the skin.
OILS YOU CAN USE:
Grapeseed oil – The best in my opinion, it’s great for massaging and doesn’t irritate the girls vagina when you use the finger stroking technique.
Rose oil – Traditionally used for romance, this oil smells great.
Sandalwood oil – Known to help increase your libido, which is a bonus.
There are tons of other oils on the market, but these works really well for sensual massages. Feel free to try others though.
3. USE THESE SENSUAL MASSAGE TECHNIQUES
You need to make sure that you have plenty of oil on your hands and on her body before starting. Once there’s enough oil, you should start with short circular hand and thumb movements, that turn into long glides and then back to short circular movements again.
You need to feel for knots on her body, these are the areas that need to be worked on, until that area is soft and less tense.
Back – Focus on the upper back, lower back, bum and legs for the first 15 minutes. Starting with the top of the shoulders and the arms and moving downwards. Spend 2 to 3 minutes on each area.
Front – Ask her to turn over slowly with her eyes closed and begin massaging her breasts, stomach, arms and legs. If you like, you can massage her feet too (some guys don’t like this). Spend 2 to 3 minutes on each of the body parts.
Lower region – With her body massaged and fully relaxed, you can now massage her vagina and the surrounding areas slowly. When you hear her moaning with pleasure, then you can move onto the finger stroking technique which will lead to a G-spot orgasm.
OTHER THINGS TO REMEMBER
When massaging your girl, sit on her bum. This will REALLY turn her on and it’s a reason to get sexual with her.
Make sure your hands are warm. Use the oil and rub your hands together for a couple of minutes so it won’t shock her when you touch her.
Lean into each ear occasionally and whisper things like “how does that feel?”. This will make her tingle and turn her on.
Test the pressure and ask her what kind of pressure she likes. Soft or firm, whatever she likes, you need to take things really slow.
I’ve found that 100% organic oils are the best. Not only do they last longer, but they have a thicker consistency and they don’t harm the skin in any way.
If you want to take to another level, run a hot bath that you can both sit in after the massage, then go back to the bedroom after that.